Psycho Prepare

Enough of a gemini life, and the most important of it is being water. Live life like water, when you blend in vessel as it is , mix with all in each proportion and when fire rises high , drowse it down. Being gemini says being water, multi faced. This takes no less than a psycho to be smiling in worst of times, wading off each debris thrown at character with the broadest weapon , smile. How satisfying is it when someone tries over and again to get you down, and you smile back. There is no harm in being a psycho, if thinking of it makes you smile. How well can you tame down a worst situation tells about your character. Let me guess my age, all a kid of 26. My qualification , BTECH. Left home a long time back in search of job , leading a nomadic life. As lived in clans in Mysore, stone shelter in Bangalore , all famous Pune and cities to name wont end. I lived alone, with weekly changing roomates, to permanent friends. I have faced most frightening heart break, and broken bones lonely, cooked myself, stayed to me, and found ways to tell Gods that its not you who care, I care for myself.

Again the times have come , again i am in same mode. Again i went to temple to tell him that lets prepare for another battle , battle of titans. If its you who have called me in here, and if its you who are in alien land as me, we will go in for duel. I will not let go to India, because there i know you hold advantage. Lets play here in US of A for sometime. I know you very well. You have a thousand responsibilites, and much more busy than i am. and that is why I have more time than you, but deep in my heart i know you care. If it was all for me to worship you, i possibly will not, not because you gave so much, not because you didnt take that much, but because i dont consider you God. It s written in plain white blog , you are no longer a God , but a friend. You exist all over, i am you and if that is true, tell me if I am right.

I am mature enough to decide whats right and whats not, tell me if I pursue my dreams myself or submit to the worldly desires. The world is not that Java , PHP , or .NET , neither a set of websites. It is just a collection of years that add to the age as we grow more stupid, more egiostic and worst, bigger.

The age then tells us we are more mature than people younger than what we are, and end up being much bigger fools than our age. We talk to like minded, and communicate as what we think is correct, not sure. Its always well said, Free Advise is harmless, until you act on it. I know so many people who would advise the entire world what to do and what not to, but they themselves will never follow it up. Many of the problems they see in each other person's life is exactly the problem they suffer from. Raising a finger leaves 4 on your side, so that will make me more psycho to say so.

A psycho now is preparing for another battle with the alien world, with the God , with the job, and above all with himself. To tell himself that he is not better than what he thinks himself of , and he should bear a little more. A little more of time is what is needed, but is this not the thing that never is. A little more time , is so much like Tomorrow , never comes. We have the moment now, the money , advise, suggestions and useless hatred will pour in as always and come with time, which never will come in itself.

DONT WAIT to chase your dreams, walk towards them, take a bigger step, a bit more faster, run and run hard to get it deep down in you till you make your dream a part of you, and dream again. Listen to all but do of heart, dont think what the world will say, who damn cares. No one says to you when not good, so let them be shut when you go in for a chance. Maximum is what will be not a successful attempt , again , bear. Stand up, and run again. Be alike, when anvil bear, when hammer strike. Prepare as a psycho, behave as a dumb , stay low and win as a winner.

Psycho Path

the path to being a certified one is no less easy, it comes with itself with a responsibility of not only being irresponsible, but being careless , forgiving , forgetting , is not so easy when you understand everything and still pretend not to be knowing everything , giving much more than 100%, and still ready to be cursed for not doing anything, for intelligence is still a matter and under ownership of few. The tougher life gets, the harder it gets to smile , still laughing is much more easy prospects. Trust me , smiling is a tougher proposition than laughing, the scars visible through smiles defeat age and reason. Still i believe , its not easy to get illogically logical, and to prove it if its really not easy to live, its harder to die. To care for someone you hardly met, and to complain for lifelong who is always by your side is no wisdom. The earlier it is recognized, better the life becomes for the one who cares. and those who care not , no need to be so careless. the path is same, be it me, he ,she , it or you, my behaviour towards all is more or less same. I really dont have an inner heart to sympathesize, drool , be happy or any feeling otherwise. I just live each part of my life as it comes. For those who came across the path, had fun and left, blessings. For those who still prefer to be in the path , God Save You , and to those who in future will come across me... better not. You will be bonded emotionally, and think of me as a very good person, caution : i am not.
beware: i am not a good caring person. I am a person who cares not, if that is your definiton of caring person, i might just fit in good then. It is exactly why so many people like me, because the only care they need is no care, and i neva do. I have had my share of responsibilities, and i have very hopelessly , shamelessly and in a very satirical way laughed them off, and the worst part. I am still running away , on this pyscho path , which is a long circular road without an end , an aim or target ... join me in this carefree careless pyscho path, live life like you scripted it.

The Certified Psycho

This is me .. Deepak , and no less than any strange case of psycho. As Dipankar once said, There was nor ever will , a greater crack in the wall than you have in your head. and to which i responded , its not hole in the wall, but wall in the hole. and 3 years later, i try everything to certify as one. Losing the loved one , loving the lost one, trying to do a DDLJ , almost aping a kid , mowing down people on roads , meeting new and stylish accidents , mis-understanding myself , promising not to promise again, and breaking the promise once more , for once more i wanna live and tell all that its me who is me. I am not the one whom the God made to be just another, I am myself. I make my own rules , i insulate , i radiate and more importantly , i speak. You may not hear it if your eyes are closed , u may not understand if your mind is closed , and possibly if its open , nothing is left in it to understand. The same is with me , take life as it comes , plan , trip , tripover , drip , slip , fall , stand up, wear down , rise again , call friends , make friends , maintain old ones, casually tune up to serious life , no one still has managed to get out of it alive, but till the time you are reading this , you have managed to wade off the DEATH for now.

I was no wiser a person to leave India, I am no intellect even today , I want to work hard, I try to , but the memories are weak , and i dont remember. I tried things , put somethings on blog, set reminders , even resorted to drinking milk , yes mom , i did . But the brain gets older, not sharper. The effect of increasing technology can be easily found to have a lasting impact on me , i see each human as a robot now, and me as robo cop. I think i can do anything without doing nothing , no no , i mean i cant do nothing , if thats the way it is.

I have so many things to do, less than anyone else, but according to me , more than i can manage. If there was an upgrade for humans available, i would have spent all my earnings ( even though they are less than my month's salary ,considering i am working for last 150 years ) to get an upgrade. Atleast brain can react to something better than age of empires and websites. I remember certain song in which writer demands two hearts , i demand brains instead. If I was intelligent, and if i would have understood the things important to me then and there , if i was able to prioritize what not to do , if i was able to maintain one relation , if i was able to get back one school life, if i would have managed to come 1st in the class once, if ..... my God ... if you existed ... i would not be so clueless, i would not be such a danger , and more importantly , i would be me ... as i am ....

( incomplete entry from a certified psycho )

waqt aur kismet

haan , woh bhi kuch suhane din the humare zamane mein jab kalam se likhte the dil ke armaan, jahan per machalte dil ke masoom khayal , sharato se bhare shabdo mein manzil ki talaash kerte the. Kuch manzil tak pahaunch te the, kuch recycle bin mein aur kuch mummy papa ke haath. Kahin ek do aashiq , bhai ya bahen ke haath mein prem patra padne se bhi shikaar huwe, to kahin per baat ban gayi. shabdo ki kala se to nawaaza nahi gaya is bande ko, jo fir bhi kabhi ek na-kaam si koshish ker leta hai is zindagi ko samajhne ki. kuch to baat hai is dharti per, jo shayad upper baitha farishta bhi bata nahi sakta. Itne bada hai faila huwa yeh jaal, aur kahan ek sire se doosra judta chala jaata hai, aur fir kaise kahan kam kaun sa sira khula reh jaaye koi nahi jaanta. Kismet, log kehte hai bada saath deti hai, mere se poocho to bhagwan kismet hai, aur kismet hi bhagwan hai. Jo aap subah se prarthana kerte ho, jiske liye mehnet karte ho aur jo aapko milta hai, aapke peeche se sab usse kismet hi to kehte hai. per kabhi kabhi yeh kismet dokha de deti hai, is waqt ke saamne. waqt, jo kismet ko maat de bhi deta hai aur nahi bhi. sahi waqt per kismet ka milan ho to hum unchaaiyan choo jaate hain, per waqt ek cheez mein sabko maat de deta hai. uski nirantar pragati ki aur badti chaal, usko na kismet , na bhagwan na koi aur rok sakta hai. Hum kuch log uske saath ched khaani kerte hai, daylight saving jaise bhi kuch kaam kerte hai, per yeh waqt nahi rukta.
mein bhi aise hi padaav per hoon zindagi ke , jab waqt ko chahta hoon ki kuch der ruk jaaye, isliye nahi ki mein duniya ki sabse khoobsoorat ladki dekh raha hoon, ya fir mera sabse jigri dost mere saath hai, ya mein apne parents ke saath vacation per hoon, per mein chahta hoon ki waqt ruke aur mein thoda aagey aur chalun. jeet ki tamanna to hai, per nazarein bhatak rahi hai, ya manzil dagmaga rahi hai. waqt hamesha ki tarah badal raha hai, aur badalta rahega. mein yeh nahi bata sakta ki mein kahan jaunga, kya karunga , kaise karunga .... kuch nahi hai ... bus ek cheez hai kahin kisi kone mein ki jab bhi mein jaun ... haste huwe jaaun, aur aise jaun ki us waqt mein to jaun , per waqt ruk jaaye .... waqt ruk jaaye

Personalised Email - Cheap and Secure

Well , how many reading this article here have a personalised email account. I have , it is called deepakg83@gmail.com.

Is it personal. Do you think it is. Is is google mail account for you, the day google fails (God forbid it does not, but in case it does) , your mail id will probably be void, and all your mails would stand deleted.

This is not the only reason to have a private email account , there is one most severe reason for you to pay up a small amount to maintain your mail account, and that is PRIVACY.

Have a look at the screenshot from a typical gmail account, there are 3 ovals. Look at these ovals, if you are able to read those , these links actually tell me how insecured my data is. It reads what is there in the email, finds the advertisement related to the content and post it. So much so that i have stopped using gmail for any sensitive mail.

This fact is known by one and many in the industry, if u look in yahoo mail , you will also see image ads

Personalised Email will not only give an identity which you want to be yours forever. Like deepak@deepakg83.com , it also looks more professional and assures the sender the data is safe.

If you are in a business or in IT field , you really don't want someone to come and ask you about the security threat your mail ID has, if you have your personalised email .

Now the cost factor:

If you opt for a personal mail id from any other site other than www.spinyourwords.com , then it comes ideally for 8.99$/year, but if you buy an entire website from me , it comes for free. Now what would an entire website cost, it costs just 1.99$ /year for info domains and 7.49$/yr for .com domains. What else, you get your own domain name , a personalised email ( 1 GB Space, spam free , ad free ) and 1 personal blog. Along with this , you get 1 GB shared space for hosting your website , for free.

2$ to 8$ per year ( for .info and .com respectively) , not a big cost to have secure and safe email for life.

Web Identity

Lets see what is web identity. If you are reading this article i assume you are well aware of what a search engine is , in case you are not, Search engine is web portal designed to search through millions of available web pages to provide you with the information required.

Have you ever typed your name in google and tried to look out for yourself, or have you known a friend having a personal website and his personal email. Have you ever wondered why is it necessary, or why should one go for it. After all gmail , yahoo mail and other mail services also provide you with an email facility (though it comes with risk of your data and sensitive information spilling all over the net), i will tell you how and why I say like that, later.

So getting a gmail id , a yahoo id , an orkut id , facebook or twitter account takes your identity directly on the web, it helps to console that you are on web, but that is you are connected to another identity. Its not your identity, afterall. And how much it costs you to have a web identity, anywhere from 2$ to 10$, depending on the domain you wanna choose.

If you consider on a flat note , a dinner for two would be more expensive than your personal website. Your home address on the internet, come on . Tell the world you exist , as I do.

I always wanted to be something like deepakgupta.com or deepak-gupta.com , but i was late in getting a name. I had to take a name as www.deepakg83.com , but then there was something in the world which www.spinyourwords.com had to offer me, it was my name domain. http://www.deepakgupta.name It just gives me immense pleasure to have a website of my name. Surely you can also have one for you , and very cheaply, as low as 2$ , and its really very simple to set it up and maintain it, as it will be just a few html pages.

I have my own company (www.spinyourwords.com) for selling domain names to people who wanna have a web identity, for no profit , and that these people can not only have a web identity , but can earn also from what they own.

And earning from the websites is not an expensive thing to do, even though slow,but steady. And well directed efforts can get you hundreds or probably thousands of dollars a month , once you start and in full flow. Tips to it follows next.

Before I wind up, there is an easy way to get yourself up and going on the internet, now and forever , for as low as 1.99$ , with a personalised email (which ideally comes for 8.99$ /yr), a personal blog , and a shared server space for hosting 1 GB ( which generally range from 4$ to 70$ a month) ... all up and free for registering a domain name at www.spinyourwords.com

Why Should I sell a business idea for no profit ?

Well , its simple , I do it as my social responsibility. But once you take part in my plan to get all indiviuals a personal domain name, I expect few things from you, other than the money you pay to purchase the website (at no profit no loss basis to me )

1. Tell your friends about the usefulness of having a web identity
2. If you are able to earn , which ideally you should be , then help others also learn. If i will guide you how to get started to make money , I surely would like you to tell others also, so that they can also earn.
3. Try to get a few friends to get started, like those who dont know basics of HTML , help them. A small effort will bring a big smile on many faces , and a bigger satisfaction on your end.

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Next in series -- importance of personalised Email

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Decision Maker - MSN Bing

MSN brings to you a search engine , oops , i should say a decision maker. One decision maker that will enable you to have a wonderful navigation experience across the world wide internet. The distances across geographies dwindling, and when we need to search for valid results for the query, Bing claims to provide authenticate results. Cheaper flight tickets, easy to schedule the trips and above all, group the results , not by popularity but by utility. It will then serve as Yellow Pages of internet, wherein it helps you get the correct result. 

The decision Maker Engine as it is being marketed , aims to help you decide. It will group the search results in the order it feels will be logical. A camera search will help you locate chear camera with most cashback options , a resturant ticket helps you with the map and directions, helps you with questions which might have multiple answers. 

Few Questions that come out : 

1. what happens in case of query result having similar results. 

2. Will it give more preference to an advertised result 

3. Will the search engine algo not decoded by the ever growing sharp site master and organisations such as godaddy.

4. Is it Bullet Proof , and servers stable.

5. Will it also use something like PageRank to rank the websites , and then decide the utility based on any such computation

If the results are based on matrix, and then it might just give an edge to other websites to utilize the weakpoints. If today i want to search Google for specific files as .doc or .ppt or even .pdf , I can customise the search results. You may find one of such customised google search here at http://complete.spinyourwords.com/ . But will I be able to do the same thing with Bing. 

The other disadvantage i see with Bing is themes it might come up with , slowing it down. The screen looks fully filled with no space to navigate. Though navigation friendly, but full. 

We can just wait and watch if this Bing pings in our life or dies out silently. 

MSN Bing

Ever Wondered what could be next age Search. google redefined the art of search, starting with a very simple concept, and to become the market leader. One thing that made it overtake the Gates lecacy or will it. Nothing is forever, and so this should also not be. google has come up with many innovative ideas, the blackle , energy reserving search, and many other similar things. There were many other search engines like alta vista who were able to get to the market, but google had sprinted out of the reach of the normal seach engines. Even Live Search was unable to stop google, and there were many reasons it was not successful. 

Live search was at par, if not better , than google search, but the speed of search, the rank algorithm and other factors kept the competition at bay. Msn would load with itself a whole lot of other things which many would not prefer in this fast paced world. I want to seach for deepakg83 or his blogs , i would certaintly fail. 

Try searching for http://deepakg83.blogspot on yahoo search, and it fails to find the site. What more depths you need to remember a website.Well, the things will change. The better and more efficient takes over. The leader is not forever. But there can be someone ruling for a long time that redefines the way the world goes. 

Looking up in the initial preview of the Bing , it certainly offers me more than i think would make it popular. Search for flight tickets between two dates, it would search inside the websites to find you the results, search for a movie and it will give you not only the tickets, but also the movie halls and multiplexes where this movie can be screened. It takes you directly to the booking seat of the movie you want, or to the consultant in case you just have not used 911. With the local regional support, MicroSoft Network  Bing ( MSN Bing as i say it) , seems to take many things in account and then go directly in giving google a tough stand. 

Points where Bing need to worry more : 

1. The search engine algo, to set the things correct. With a huge number of websites, of expired domains, of the blogspots , indexing will not be easy, and there needs to be a very strong way to beat google.

2. The way it searched for images, video clips and other formats need to be tested.

3. The performance testing when millions of users use it, and many of them concurrently access it many tabs in the same browser, and many browsers in the same window.

Along the Bing would come another security threat, the threat of my DATA being exposed. It will take me directly to the consultant, and thus breaking one level of security. SQL injections need to be taken care of more precisely.

When i see Orkut today, i see many friend requests coming up daily, and i see many accounts getting hacked. The share of market which MSN has today is immense, with Outlook still being a premier choice to many hundreds. MSN Bing can either take everything in MS stride or let it fall apart, making the way a bit more difficult to the MS in near future. Anyhow I see , as of now , Bing is coming , and is here to stay.

(This article is written by Deepak Gupta, for www.msnbing.net You need to include author's site url and his refernce while posting the same on any website or forwarding. It is protected by IP rights. )

Jan Gan Man Video Causing Trouble

I dont know if this song depicts true india, but this song seems to me a real India. We need to rebuild ourselves , rise like phoenix, so that this song look more of a fiction than reality .... 

Susan Boyle 25 years ago

A new video of Susan when she was just 22 ... How about the voice 

Hanging Bamboo

In the middle of jungle , lemme introduce the trio . 

Ajit : in the foregound. 

Himanshu: in the background

Deepak : This is not covered by Discovery , so am holding the cam.

So join me in exploring the restless minds: 

Ajit is looking up through the bamboo , as if trying to ask God if he can talk to him from the tunnel or is he trying to figure out how deep is bamboo. He just like me and you have read bamboo grow  from the ground. How come this one is hanging from top. Look around all bamboo on ground. 

This one had a peg of whiskey or what , that take it to the top of the world. No , no. Oh My God , this one is hanging himself . 

Himanshu is still not sure why is he wondering , but we possibly know. the pressure ... of thinking hard forces body fluids out. He is looking for space. And Ajit is looking for a bamboo. 

So is that it ... i doubt . Let us have a look a moment later : 

Ajit is trying all his forces to save the bamboo from committing sucide, but nothing it seems can save the bamboo. Himanshu is still wondering in the woods. There are a few other bamboo there , and i think he is trying to figure out a bamboo for himself. Ajit has just claimed a bamboo. If you happen to go there , you will find Ajit embedded on it ...

I want to write a bit more .. but i will stop here. This is one of my most senseless post , but i will make it more senseless by adding another paragraph :So finally i was caught conspiring , and both decided it was time for me to go down the earth. The bamboo was gifted to me , and just after the pic i slipped down in a painful position , while holding the bamboo as the flag before surrender .

There are more random pics and more useless senseless posts coming up soon :) 

Whats In India

That roadside highway dhaba i cherish ,
and delhi bhatinda punjab mail ,
people storming in for one stop ...
and never getting off the seat ...
that tea one not having a change ..
shouting chai chai Chaaiiyaam ..
The khuller milk with cream and jalebi ,
you will never know the smiles on friends ...
and the newspaper one will go across the place ,
to return one buck , and tell them its fine ...
place where you leave a buck and people feel obliged ...
not like yours where tip is right ...
for from the station to the place dont need a cab ...
the auto does fine ... had all not on station ...
for return to Delhi is no less fun ...
and then to Bangalore for my second home ,
ok third home ... no more compromise ....

Imperfections ...

What are we today. A little less money , a little less happiness , a little less friend , a little less love, a little less sport. Is it . If you reading this and find even a single one true. Think . Once more , is it same .Yes , little less money ... dont compare yourself with anyone else. Compare it with yourself. And when you do that lets move a year back. 

Statuary warning : If your answer is no for all , Great. The article is THE END here. But if you are a little less yourself now, read on .

So little less money . How much more you wanted. Have you thought what is that figure which will make you smile. a million dollars, that is 5 crore indian rupees. What will you do then , think about it . A Big Car (get a loan dear) , a lavish house ( or home you still have) , the hunger goes on. 

Rewind Time : Go back to school days. What you had then. Nothing. Your parents or near-dear ones earned for you and you studied hard. You were happy then. What happened when you got a extra green bill for the Diwali sweets , or candy on hot summer night walking by the home. Then you did not care for these. I dont say you should not think about those things, but there is no reason to be sad if you dont have those. Plan pursposefully. Set goals , achieve them. make a backup plan. You dont become Bill Gates overnight. People tend to start late. Being happy is the the key , not being rich. Be sufficient. Still not contented.  Lets plan. 

Do you have a bank balance. If yes , then skip to happiness section. Invest the money , money makes more. The money in safe is degrading , put in fixed deposit if you have surplous. Now if you dont have, get a paper and pen out. make a future report. How much you earn , and how much you save. You will get a realistic approach of when you will have a bank balance . So plan. Dont be sad. 

A little less happiness .... What happened boss. Think of golden time when you scored a sole goal in a classroom match, of an untiring hundred in book cricket , an undefeated stretch of 15 games in Zero Katta , a win in Ludo , reaching the top in Snake n Ladder from that lucky number 21, and then getting back to 10 from number 99, think of small things. Think of friends . Think of me . We like others are always there. I might fade in light , look upto your brothers and parents. Blood is blood , and happiness is just there. We dont search for it , but just as the dark cloud would shield the sun from us , and make the day rainy, or there can be a bigger eclipse. The day appears night, dont let it stay. It will go off in a second, try not to look directly. Believe in yourself. Its a good thing to believe , to believe that you can, because when you start believing , you start planning , and start to learn and find ways. Happiness comes back in small packets in big way. When you start finding those packets , you radiate more energy than you think of . 

You know what is the best mantra of smiling. Think of friends who always were , but you left them enroute because of any reason. When you will call them , they will smile. Old friends never forget, and with them you re-live the smiles you smiled with them. Find school friends , college friends , or just friends. Think how they helped you  , and you helped them when it needed the most. think of those bunking lectures , those failed exams, those night before exams , those holis and those diwali ... now smile plz. 

Wanna read more ... gimme some time and some comments to carry on ... and when you do that , just smile 

My pillar My luck (touchwood)

when i think of her , few hair flew across her face. She put a hand towards her face and try to wave off them, but then left carelessly to fly around. I wondered it is a style statement or just to tell the world , the carefree attitude she carries, as if unpeturbed by the world around. I dont know pal , what she thinks for the world , but in this world i do think of her. Whenever i am out in big malls, and in sections of her style, i remember her. Her smiles , seeing the price tag and saying, "Areee nahi chaiye, bada mehnga hai" , or running across the mall , and getting a perfect Tee for me. Her enthusiasm and charm in each and every thing she said or do was just so undefeated. Her accent in typical punjabi style where she grew and wanted to go when finished her training. I dont know what made her get to Bangalore , but i had known it a year ago when she was to come to Bangalore that she will be a very good friend. I had shared so many things with her, like with no one else. She knows all the episode of the girl i liked, and consoled me when i was down. She was a face of life which told me to get up, cheer and start anew. She was always there (and still is) for me whenever i needed her. Most of my big plans had her in them , so originated for her , or by her. She was a dream come true friend (touchwood) anyone will cherish to have. Not only being beautiful, she is one with brains. If you happen to know flawless beauty i am talking about, then you must also know she is blessed with great personality, decency , innocence of a child and hear of gold. She will forgive ,if not forget. She tells me to go and fight in this world. She stands by my decision. She is one in a million friends. 

I wont say i am lucky to have a friend like you , but its God's grace for me to have known her. She has supported me well when one of my very close friend went out with her new found love, and when i was alone and sad. 

This girl has diagnosed many problems of mine, and i moved to BTM. I asked her if I should move in , she said yes. And without thinking a second , i went ahead. She has turned all in gold for me , my US visa was stuck , and when she was back from delhi, she said it will be done. It was. Trust me friend , i dare not say your name , many would believe you to be abstract. An angel of sorts with such qualities dont exist, and i will not disturb the illusion of those. But for those who know me , know you as a reality . I am sure you wont change , i believe in you. And as you always have done , keep my belief intact . 

The building blocks

It has been a long time in this world , 25 years done. Long time , but i am sure i learnt most in first five years then in next twenty. Still i dont remember anything from that. Today i write words and sentences in English , but when did i learnt them. My mom tells me , i did my ABCD at age of 2 , and numbers at 3. I started making sentences at 4 and by 5 i was giving oral exams. 

I now know love , and my friends think i know what is friendship, but i dont think i will be anywhere near to what my parents did. Selfless love to make me what i am today. 

I run on streets , drive bikes and have ability to stop. I sense danger , and i interpret love in its pure form , these came when i started tricycling. As Newton did an intgration over a period, so did we. I grew from 5 to 25 , and i saw many things. Broken bones , laughing friends , love , heart-break, friends , not so friends , politics , conspiracy , envy and many shades of life which tell us to learn. We opt most of the times to go with the emotions and not learn from it. we should start doing it . 

Lets start with basic thing :

 Never Expect . all know , but a few do. The greatest pleasure comes when u dont expect , and you get something. Its depression when you expect and dont get it in desired form ,and devastating when you dont get after expecting. 

Dont Lie ::::: Never Lie in frienship ,in relations , for people you care , and otherwise. Most of the close friendships die because of this. If u need to lie , then something is wrong in the friendship. Dont be afraid to tell the truth, things can always work out. Remember: People who matter dont mind , and people who mind dont matter . 

Love : Love all your friends , and if you develop feeling towards a particular friend , be bold and tell it. Most probably the person will refuse, but that is the best way to save a friendship. DONOT , i repeat DONOT forget your other friends if the person agrees to your love. And if the feelings are not reciprocated, love as a friend. 

Sacrifice : the last bite of a meal is shared , give away the last chip from a Lays packet, save last drop of water from the last bottle in a trip, make a cup of tea in middle of night. Trust me , the last chip wont fill your tummy as much as the love would once the other person understands. the thirst will go unquenched if you drink the last drop. 

Radiate : Make the positive vibes, be ready for friends forever . They teased a girl , principal coming.. stand by them. Make your friends believe in you , and never break it .

Above all , be a sport always. Trust me , a lost friend is "The Lost World". I have lost many , and as you read the heading of my blog , its for those Lost Worlds , i lost while gaining all these experineces. 

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